Okay so first, Ten-I-See I don’t know if this is brilliant or cheesy but hey if it made you laugh then I guess it worked.
Okay so here is one thing that I did while in college. let me give you a little back story, I went to a university close to the beach in Maryland. One semester I actually lived beach front so I had this amazing view of the ocean right outside my bedroom and living room window. Woke up to the sounds of waves crashing against the shore everyday. So I already had some ambiance built in.
The next thing I did was talk to the BFF of the girl I was going to take out that night to find out some of her interests. Now this works because I made an effort to find something out that I knew she would like. Here is the thing, it turned out she had a bit of a french fry fetish. So I went up and down the beach town and bought french fries from at least 20 different places and had them all ready on a serving tray with little place cards from where they came from, etc. We sampled then on the balcony with the ocean as our backdrop. This immediately put her in a great mood and it was something that nobody had ever thought of or done before (her sister later told me that this was a perfect idea and made a tremendous impression on her). Although I realized later that I had to have done something right initially for her to have agreed to go out with me in the first place.
Anyway, it being a beach area, we then went down to a marina, we rented a boat and went out on the bay side and cruised the town. Found a nice, quiet place to watch the sunset then returned to my condo. Went for a nice walk on the beach and to your point, found activities to do that also allowed us to talk and get to know each other.
This was a college girlfriend. Not even a serious relationship, but still have very fond memories of her and this specific night.
So there you go 🙂
best Pick Up Line: I’ve only ever used one “line” in my life and it worked. I was standing in line waiting to buy a drink at the bar and this really cute girl got in line behind me. I kept looking back at her till finally she said “What?!” I replied “I was just thinking that if you were a booger I’d pick you” She squished up her face, laughed, said “ewww”. She then asked me “Is that your pick up line?” I said “yes”, she said “That’s the best you can do?” and I said “Well you laughed and now we’re talking so do you want to buy me a drink?” She laughed at that and we ended up dating for 4 months.
A HUGE dating Turn Off: People who go on ad nauseam about how much they hate their job or boss or co-workers. Don’t ever do that! It’s just a prelude to what the other person has to look forward to if you date. Non stop complaining about work and ain’t nobody got time for that haha!
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